Divorce and separation are among the most disruptive events anyone can experience. The experience bleeds into every part of one’s life, including work. While incredibly personal, its impact often shows up in a variety of ways -reduced focus, emotional overload, absenteeism, burnout and conflict in the workplace to name a few. Whilst traditionally, employees have been…
Reading LinkedIn posts lately, everything is tuned toward exciting fresh starts and new beginnings for the start of a new year. The month of January seems to have a way of shouting from the roof tops with new goals and new plans which can often be exciting for some but for others it can be…
Christmas can be tough enough with some of the stress and expectations we put on ourselves. The social media pages out there are full of great and jolly ideas when we are playing happy families. But going through this time of year alone because of a relationship breakdown, separation or divorce can be extremely difficult….
Why are more couples deciding to end their relationship or marriage later in life? There can be numerous reasons and every situation is unique. However, many couples are more independent nowadays and often have careers and finances that allow them those choices. Data from Statistics New Zealand states nearly 40% of divorces involved people over…
Co-parenting means the sharing of duties around raising a child or children (used especially with parents who are separated or not in a relationship). Successful co-parenting can be established when both parents ensure the child or children come first in all decisions relating to them and the circumstances, they currently live in. Children do…
When you speak to people about their experience through divorce, you often hear them say “I wished I had access to a Divorce Coach when I was going through all my issues. Looking back, I could have avoided some of my mistakes”. Conflict is inevitable in divorce, and it changes your everyday life. People claim…
Nesting is a co-parenting arrangement during separation, where children remain in the family home while parents take turns living there with them. This approach has several advantages and disadvantages to consider. Concepts needed for successful nesting: Collaboration between the parents | Logistical Discipline | Amicable | Communicate clearly | Trust | Managing household responsibilities i.e.:…